Infatuation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eb2eSZ2x5aE

so, this song was on my friend's facebook & it's got me thinking. how do we know when it's not infatuation. "you just know." I'm sure you do, but what if you were in love but you didn't believe it? like, you thought it was infatuation? what distincts one thing from another. "real love is more than butterflies in your stomach." so then that's deep like, right? but then, how do you know.

"we're looking for love but we're not sure what to find." & that's true. because how do you know what you're looking for. it's like going on a neverending circle, looking for whatever it is called love. & i'm just wondering how do you know when it's love because i've always wondered that with majano. I say i'm in love with him, i tell him i'm in love with him, but i seriously think it's only infatuation. but is it? or is it just because i don't want myself to be in love ? i'm not sure. because, i'm looking for love but then i'm not. so, tell me, when do you know?

is there just a feeling that goes, "yes, he/she's the one." or maybe it's a fleeting moment and you just plummet downwards without knowing it. & how does one, fall out of love. does that mean they weren't in love in the first place? because how do you stop loving the person you love ? and sometimes, i just wish i had a map to the human soul because too many things in this world contradict each other, confusing so many people in the process.

how does one know when they've fallen? it's a simple question. i just need a simple answer besides the usual, "You'll know." because if you have doubts, is it because you're insecure about it? or is it because it's not really love? And i'm just so confused. hm.